June 23, 2011: Etiquette by Margery Sinclair

     At this weekly meeting of SpiritMindBodyGroup we had a guest brought by Sue. That guest was Margery Sinclair, international expert and author on Good Manners, and etiquette. I believe I am not just speaking for myself when I say that I learned a tremendous amount on behavior, which will enable all of us to get along better with peers, communicate better what we wish, and spread civility in a world where we all think that commodity is severely lacking. Margery showed us why "People with good manners have a lifetime advantage in their personal and professional lives."

We discussed the E. Q. Test (Etiquette Quotient) and its answers, among other etiquette questions.

1. What is the first and most fundamental rule of etiquette?
2  What is the difference between "thoughtless" and "rude"?
3. What is the correct response to "How do you do?"
4. What is the correct response to "How are you?"
5. What two questions should you ask before repeating gossip?
6. Is profanity ever acceptable?
7. We can compliment people in three areas. Please name them.
8. What does "R.S.V.P. stand for in French? What does it mean in English?
9. You are taking friends out to dinner. The check is $238.73. Quick -- How much is a 15% tip?
10. When and why do you write a thank you note?
11. In which direction do you pass the rolls?
12. True or false: American should eat European style.
13. Should you eat the salad on your left? Or is it for the person on your left?
14. Why might a fork and/or spoon be place above your plate?
15. Where does the napkin go when you are finished eating, but still sitting at the table?
16. Your parents used to cut up all your food into small pieces; should you still do that?
17. Should you turn your glass upside down if you don't want the beverage?

"Those who do not know propriety lack a basis for establishing character."  Confucius, 559-449 BCE

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